I only want my Ooma phone to ring when someone in my friends or family list on Google call. So I unchecked the box for my Ooma number on my phones list in Google voice (making it not call by default) but in my groups setting page I told the groups to ring the Ooma phone instead of using the default.
That doesn't work. No matter how many times I call from my cell phone it never rings the Ooma phone. But if I check the box to make the Ooma phone ring by default, then it works.
Any ideas how I can make this happen? I don't want my Ooma phone to ring for anybody but people in my contacts list, I thought that would be easy to do with Voice.
This may help others in the future though, so I here is the answer.
Go to the google voice contacts: https://www.google.com/voice/b/0#contacts and search for the persons name, click "Edit Google Voice Settings" and it will show what group or circle is being used for this person.
I was in different groups, and the group it was using was not the one that I had told Google to not use default settings...